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yourbigsisnissi:

if you’re afraid to have difficult conversations in your relationship

your relationship is not as good or as strong as you think it is

talk about boundaries, talk about hurt feelings, talk about disappointments, talk about things that need to change

not when you’re angry, not as a tool to hurt the other person in an argument

have the difficult conversations

with respect, with intention, and with purpose

or don’t

but if you choose not to

know that your choosing to allow your relationship to be superficial or move forward aimlessly

know that you’re choosing to waste your time

(via yourbigsisnissi)

antiseducer:

@anastasiowild

sadsarah:

LAURIE HALSE ANDERSON

Wintergirls (2009);

original photos and edit

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purplebuddhaquotes:

“Art and love are the same thing: it’s the process of seeing yourself in things that are not you. It’s understanding the unreasonable.”

—

Chuck Klosterman

goyardgyal:

create a new image. define yourself, go beyond the limitations of others and yourself

(via dantydandelion)

reeflauren:

when you fell down, i picked you up

put on your crown & lift you up

saxifraga-x-urbium:

plain-flavoured-english:

Your purpose in life is not to love yourself but to love being yourself.

If you goal is to love yourself, then your focus is directed inward toward yourself, and you end up constantly watching yourself from the outside, disconnected, trying to summon the “correct” feelings towards yourself or fashion yourself into something you can approve of.

If your goal is to love being yourself, then your focus is directed outward towards life, on living and making decisions based on what brings you pleasure and fulfillment.

Be the subject, not the object. It doesn’t matter what you think of yourself. You are experiencing life. Life is not experiencing you.

Thank you this is the first post about self love that hasn’t made me want to throw things

(via qtpychipmunk)